Begin at the roots

Learning to respect life begins with the lives closest to us. Pro-life messages begin to take root in simple things such as treating siblings, parents and grandparents respectfully. Listening politely and respectfully and responding kindly are excellent starting points. Helping our children learn to share and borrow well, and practice compassion as they encounter conflict and different perspectives, builds the foundation for bigger lessons to come.

Because God said so

1 John 4:19 says, “We love because God first loved us.” These few words offer another important truth: Love is required because it is given by God and he gives it so we can give it to others. There is no mention of earning or deserving love – simply receiving and giving. The world tries to distract us from this simple truth, but its simplicity makes things very clear. We love everyone – the unborn, the marginalized, the annoying and the difficult –  because God said so.

Hard truth

How we’re treated has nothing to do with how we treat others. The world is full of disrespect but that doesn’t require our participation. When we begin to see others through God’s eyes, we grow in humility, mercy and love, and these are the virtues necessary to recognize and respect the dignity in all humans. Living this truth takes a daily commitment to see with God’s eyes and not our own, because our eyes can see only what’s on the surface rather than the stories and events that have shaped each person.

Big things

Talk about big pro-life issues such as abortion and euthanasia in age-appropriate ways. Families can tackle these big issues by praying a Rosary for Life, praying for the dying and those who care for them, or offering supplies and volunteer assistance at a crisis pregnancy center. Approaching these issues with prayerful awareness rather than harsh judgment can help our children learn why we value life and trust in the Father’s divine intervention.

The practical

Practice appreciating the dignity of life in everyday circumstances. Humans crave connection, so be on the lookout for those who could use a friendly visit or helping hand. Be aware of those who might be easy to look away from and offer them a hello or a quiet prayer. As you try to see others through Jesus’ eyes, gently redirect conversations and attitudes that are not merciful or loving. Challenge each other to find ways to love those who are difficult to love and make it a goal to extend kindness each day to someone older and someone younger than you.